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I imagine that there would have to be a lot of US senators and judges a little worried about their personal lives, after this precedent...

But in the end - people lie in relationships. Will that become a felony offence soon too ?]]> That’s ridiculous. Gullibility is not something that can be protected for by the law.



I imagine that there would have to be a lot of US senators and judges a little worried about their personal lives, after this precedent...



But in the end - people lie in relationships. Will that become a felony offence soon too ?

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Alain http://h_alain.instablogs.com http://h_alain.instablogs.com Alain
You don't seem to realise how serious lying in a relationship can be. It shatters people and being cheated has serious implications on health too, mostly emotional. Just like a rape victim goes through the shame and humiliation for years if not their entire lives, cheated lovers (those who were conned to give sexual consent by the promise of marriage) also goes through similar trauma.]]> Graeme:



You don’t seem to realise how serious lying in a relationship can be. It shatters people and being cheated has serious implications on health too, mostly emotional. Just like a rape victim goes through the shame and humiliation for years if not their entire lives, cheated lovers (those who were conned to give sexual consent by the promise of marriage) also goes through similar trauma.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 G http://graeme.instablogs.com http://graeme.instablogs.com G
Do not tell me I do not understand lies in a relationship. No offence has been taken, but you do not know me.

I have been lied to for other’s pleasure. I am a man. Does this mean I am unable to feel pain in this situation ?

I would not take someone to court over it.]]> Alain - I have been lied to. I have had a woman say she will marry me. I have turned my life upside down to please her and for a future with her. Then she has discarded me. With no reasons.



Do not tell me I do not understand lies in a relationship. No offence has been taken, but you do not know me.



I have been lied to for other’s pleasure. I am a man. Does this mean I am unable to feel pain in this situation ?



I would not take someone to court over it.

]]> Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Moses http://moses86.instablogs.com http://moses86.instablogs.com Moses I agree with Alain. I would rather go one step further and suggest that the same law applies to women who cheat. It is equally humiliating for an innocent unsuspecting man to be conned into having sex by a woman who promised to marry him and later dumped him.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 R.M.Paulraj http://rmpraj.instablogs.com http://rmpraj.instablogs.com R.M.Paulraj It is fifty fifty. But men take undue advantage on many occasions.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Desh http://deshraj.instablogs.com http://deshraj.instablogs.com Desh
It should be either yes or no. I do agree with SC’s decision; it’s a right one.

Its a blatant cheating and fraud. Making someone believe you’re unmarried, and then molesting him/her is a crime and can never be justified. Similarly, luring someone to physical relations on the pledge of marrying him/her later is rape.]]> Fifty-fifty– is it a game or something, Paul?



It should be either yes or no. I do agree with SC’s decision; it’s a right one.



Its a blatant cheating and fraud. Making someone believe you’re unmarried, and then molesting him/her is a crime and can never be justified. Similarly, luring someone to physical relations on the pledge of marrying him/her later is rape.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 R.M.Paulraj http://rmpraj.instablogs.com http://rmpraj.instablogs.com R.M.Paulraj
I meant persons belonging to both the sexes are equally responsible in many cases.]]> Dear Desh,



I meant persons belonging to both the sexes are equally responsible in many cases.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Ketul http://s-ketul.instablogs.com http://s-ketul.instablogs.com Ketul Alain and Moses, I agree that there should be equality in punishments and cheating someone to have sex on the pretext of getting married later is a grave sin. But how is rape defined? The definition of rape varies from country to country. In India only the act of penile insertion in the vagina of an non-consenting female is rape. There is nothing other than outraging modesty or causing bodily injury if the act involves anal intercourse or using objects or digits. Men cannot technically report rape and so cannot a forcibly sodomized female.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Grace Calderon http://gracieb.instablogs.com http://gracieb.instablogs.com Grace Calderon Rape occurs when the woman says, No!”

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Aneez http://aneezshaikh.instablogs.com http://aneezshaikh.instablogs.com Aneez
Grace you are wonderful, I’m glad I have you on my friends’ list.]]> God!! This is the most honest comment I’ve seen in ages!



Grace you are wonderful, I’m glad I have you on my friends’ list.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 G http://graeme.instablogs.com http://graeme.instablogs.com G
And Aneez - she’s something special, for sure.

;)]]> Yes. That’s spot on.



And Aneez - she’s something special, for sure.



;)

]]> Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Prasad http://k_prasad.instablogs.com http://k_prasad.instablogs.com Prasad The Indian Supreme Court has gone mad. This is something many judges would have differences on. I am saying so because take for example if I promised my lover that I shall marry her someday and then for a reason I cannot like I don’t have a job yet, or don’t have the money or I find the girl cheating me. Now she can take me to the court and file a rape complaint. This is ridiculous.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Khalil http://daswani_khalil.instablogs.com http://daswani_khalil.instablogs.com Khalil This is an ironic judgement by some moronic blokes in black in India. Rape by mutual consent is an unheard of thing. You can’t have a nice time based on a promise and then when the promise is broken cry rape.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Abhishek Singh http://abhishekkrsingh.instablogs.com http://abhishekkrsingh.instablogs.com Abhishek Singh It feels the most easy ways to comment on the honorable Supreme Court of India that the decision was a foolish one or they don’t think before they pass judgments....but guys...there are certain things we must understand...firstly, all cases are handled on individual circumstances and on case to case basis....so if there is one decision where even consented sex is taken as rape...there are several instances where even murder is exempt from punishment...in case a promise is done and some action is taken over that promise, and later the promise turns out to be a fake one...what is the remedy available for the person who acted on the promise?? treat is like a case of ready made garments, if it claims that there is a guarantee of colour or stitching for say 6 months...and for that they take a higher price...and you purchase that item...after two weeks, if the stitches are gone or colours fade, and the company refuses to act uponw the promise, we will just run towards Consumer courts for help...and we get satisfied...but what about a girl, who’s lost her virginity on the basis of a fake promise...she can’t run to any court and get her virginity back....and thus in this case, if damages can’t be repaired, the accused must be penalized...and this is what honorable Supreme Court has done....I don’t find anything bad in the decision....but a new direction being given to the legal system....

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Aneez http://aneezshaikh.instablogs.com http://aneezshaikh.instablogs.com Aneez
Just now I was discussing the same with a (male) friend of mine, and we shared a very intimate part of our personal lives, where we were practically fooled by girls into believing that they would marry us.

Poor us, we were physically and emotionally used by the girls for years before being ditched!!]]> I respect SC’s decision, but I won’t favour it. Until I get assurance that the same will be applicable to women folk.



Just now I was discussing the same with a (male) friend of mine, and we shared a very intimate part of our personal lives, where we were practically fooled by girls into believing that they would marry us.



Poor us, we were physically and emotionally used by the girls for years before being ditched!!

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Jaiyant Cavale http://cavale.instablogs.com http://cavale.instablogs.com Jaiyant Cavale Such a ruling can result in grievous judgements in future and can be exploited by many. To say this also means women don’t desire for sex and and it is all the man’s fault. I can’t but disagree with such a weird ruling.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Irfan http://a_irfan.instablogs.com http://a_irfan.instablogs.com Irfan after two weeks, if the stitches are gone or colours fade, and the company refuses to act uponw the promise, we will just run towards Consumer courts for help...and we get satisfied...but what about a girl, who’s lost her virginity on the basis of a fake promise...she can’t run to any court and get her virginity back....and thus in this case, if damages can’t be repaired, the accused must be penalized...

You comparing readymade garments with virginity??? Ah ha! Okay then. Let me tell you something for the sake of argument. They garments can be stitched back free of cost if the stitches break within the warranty period. A maidenhead can also be 'stitched' back.

Maybe the court should have put the cost of such a tailoring on the man. Logical right?]]>

after two weeks, if the stitches are gone or colours fade, and the company refuses to act uponw the promise, we will just run towards Consumer courts for help...and we get satisfied...but what about a girl, who’s lost her virginity on the basis of a fake promise...she can’t run to any court and get her virginity back....and thus in this case, if damages can’t be repaired, the accused must be penalized...



You comparing readymade garments with virginity??? Ah ha! Okay then. Let me tell you something for the sake of argument. They garments can be stitched back free of cost if the stitches break within the warranty period. A maidenhead can also be ’stitched’ back.



Maybe the court should have put the cost of such a tailoring on the man. Logical right?

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Amar http://basnet_amar.instablogs.com http://basnet_amar.instablogs.com Amar
What NONSENSE?! Where does the virginity factor comes from? And who knows whether the girl in question was a virgin or not? Did she have a certificate proving that she was a virgin before the man deflowered her on a promise? And if she had a certificate, who issued it?]]> @Abhishek Singh...



What NONSENSE?! Where does the virginity factor comes from? And who knows whether the girl in question was a virgin or not? Did she have a certificate proving that she was a virgin before the man deflowered her on a promise? And if she had a certificate, who issued it?

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Sameer Kumar http://attitude.instablogs.com http://attitude.instablogs.com Sameer Kumar
and will any idiot who is contemplating cheating on someone promise in public??? So the court is going to go on the girl’s word??? This is absolute legal nightmare. No Proof means no Crime done and thats that.]]> While all this argument about what constitutes a rape and morality issues is fine, I still would like to know hoe this will actually ever work. Lets say I promise someone that i will marry them and then sleep with them and then do not marry the girl. Now how is she ever going to prove it unless i promise in public???



and will any idiot who is contemplating cheating on someone promise in public??? So the court is going to go on the girl’s word??? This is absolute legal nightmare. No Proof means no Crime done and thats that.

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Kimberlee Mancha http://kmancha.instablogs.com http://kmancha.instablogs.com Kimberlee Mancha
To call the 2 equal (married man lying and a physical rape) by labelling them both rape is wrong.]]> I think that a ruling such as this diminishes the reality of the victims of a true, physical rape.



To call the 2 equal (married man lying and a physical rape) by labelling them both rape is wrong.

]]> Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Sasmita http://jashmine.instablogs.com http://jashmine.instablogs.com Sasmita
In this modern society, many of the girls themselves indulge in sexual activities with their boyfriend. Later they feel guilty of it and blame their boyfriends calling it rape.]]> Not exactly. If the girl is not forced to have sex, it’s not rape. Because girls are also equally interested in it even before marriage (in many cases). And sometimes that encourages real sex between the two, even if no promise is made about marriage.



In this modern society, many of the girls themselves indulge in sexual activities with their boyfriend. Later they feel guilty of it and blame their boyfriends calling it rape.

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